How to write gay sex scenes

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They always had the dance belts on, but they had good legs, and beautiful asses, so that was good. I would look at pictures of ballet dancers, and always try to divine some kind of bulge. When I was a kid, there was absolutely no gay porno that I could see and no gay books that I knew of. Not enough to buy all the gay books, apparently.ĭo you remember the first gay sex scene you read in a book? There are only like 3 million of us or something. Because there aren’t that many gay people. I had both a gay writer friend and an editor tell me, “Couldn’t you just make this straight?”

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Do you still have to deal with the argument that your books would somehow be more palatable if they contained less sex-gay sex, in particular? Your most recent novel, Our Young Man, offers a sweeping view of a complicated gay relationship-including lots of descriptions of gay sex.

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